Allex

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Memorial Program
To download Allex's Memorial Program click on this link: Download Program.pdf .

Newspaper Article -- Front Page

"Heartfelt words touched girl's life"

EVERETT - Two cardboard boxes sat on a kitchen table, barely holding all the letters and cards. One card was filled with messages from classmates. "Fight on! We are rooting for you," one student wrote. "Stay strong and remember our love," another said.

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From her classmates:

Spokane, WA Spokesman Review Newspaper on Friday April 14, 2006:

IN MEMORY OF
Allex Apley-Conner
03/17/1988 - 4/6/2006
"Our gentle, quirky friend, with a mischevious
sense of humor who
radiated joy & delight".
-The Students and Staff of North Central High School-

Allex's Memorial Notice

Here is a link to Allex's published Memorial Notice.

Allex Memorial

To Our Extended Friends and Family:

With great sorrow we send out a final “Allex Update”.  On Thursday night (04-06-06) at around 9:00 pm Allex passed away.   Our family is extremely saddened but is comforted in the fact she is no longer suffers.

We were overwhelmed with the amazing turnout on March 10th at the Flying Pig as many of you supported our family in person and financially.  The event was fantastic and Allex had a wonderful time.   She enjoyed meeting everyone, the awesome music by Station House Blues, and Sgt. Britton’s serenade!  Allex didn’t want to leave at the end of the night.  Thank you for spending time with us and your support. 

On March 14th – 20th we flew to Tokyo for our Make-A-Wish trip.  Allex picked the location because she was a HUGE fan of anime (Japanese visual animation) and manga (Japanese written cartoons).   We spent 3 fast and furious days touring two creation studios, the Mandrake anime shopping center, a museum and Tokyo Disneyland.  We met the original creator of “Tech-Mech” creation (Transformers and the like) and the artists of several of her favorite anime characters.   Allex understood everything, but most of it went over my head.  The museum was beautiful - Our tour began 30 minutes before the doors opened and we were allowed to take pictures.  (Aside from marketing – taking pictures inside are prohibited.)   The trip was great and we had a blast.  Allex maintained great spirits and health throughout.  Pictures of the trip are here.

After returning home Allex took several days to recover.  On March 25th (Saturday) Allex was invited by Make-A-Wish to SakuraCon in Seattle (anime convention) where she had a great time as a guest of honor and shared the day with one of her best friends, Barrett Taylor.   She quickly fatigued and her health declined over the next several days.

On March 29th (Wednesday) Children’s ran the 6 week CT and MRI scans again.  The results were shocking.  All of the original brain lesions returned but were dramatically enlarged.  There were also numerous new lesions.  Additional scans showed Allex’s labored breathing was due to a collapsed left lung.  The right lung was 50% filled with tumors and 25% fluid.  The Tarceva, chemo and radiation had failed and the prognosis was days.  Allex was admitted to Children’s Hospital.  If Wednesday was horrible, Thursday was worse.   During a short period of consciousness, Sharon and I told Allex the medications failed and her body couldn’t fight anymore.  Allex replied, “I guess we will see if it really is mind over matter.”   During the next several days Allex’s health declined but much to everyone’s surprise she made it to the weekend.  The weekend and following days were the hardest Sharon or I have ever experienced.   We watched helplessly while Allex deteriorated and her organs began shutting down.  Late Thursday afternoon Allex’s remaining lung began filled with fluid.  The final 2 hours were awful as Allex continued to struggle and fight.  In the end she was finally at peace.

We cannot thank you enough for your support over the past 4.5 months.  Your thoughts and prayers were welcome and calmed our family.   We appreciated the wonderful food, help and financial support.  Allex’s journey was too short and extremely tough but your support kept us strong.  It was wonderful knowing so many people were praying for us.

There will be a memorial service at 2:00 pm on Saturday April 15, 2006 at Timberlake Christian Fellowship (4505 236th Ave NE Redmond, WA 98053) with a reception to follow.  Child care will be provided during service and social time. 

Sharon & Aaron Snell

Links

A local newspaper, The HeraldNet, wrote an aricle about Allex on 3/8/2006. It's called Courage stands in for cure.

And this is a letter to the editor from Officer Jamie French, who was the main organizer for the Benefit event. It was published on 3/18/2006.

Update

Allex is not doing well- she is inpatient at Children's hospital in Seattle.  If you would like to visit, she is registered as Allexandra Apley-Conner and she is in the SCCA, 3rd floor, room 3290.  Visiting hours are 10am till 8pm.

Allex's health has dramatically declined since we returned from Japan.  She had a few days a jet lag, a day of pure fun when she received a huge box of gifts from Japan and spent the afternoon at SakuraCon (An anime convention in Seattle), but then she changed and she ate and drank very little and was not awake or coherent.  Allex complained of sever pain in her neck, shoulders and right arm. 

Last Wednesday (3/29) we headed into Children's hospital for Allex's weekly doctors appointment and the 6 week MRI's and CT's to gauge how well the Tarceva and other treatments were going.  The results were poor.  The MRI shows dozens of new brain tumors and the tumor in her brain stem has regrown.  The CT scan shows her left lung has collapsed - causing her heart to shift right and forcing it to work harder.  The right lung is about 50% tumor and 25% collapsed and is surrounding by a growing amount of fluid.  The tumors elsewhere in her body are multiplying and growing in size.  The news was not good.

Allex was admitted to Children's Hospital that night where she remains heavily sedated. Her oxygen sats have sagged to as low as 72 and she struggles to breathe.  We have her on oxygen to make her more comfortable.   Anti-seizure medication and morphine ease the pain and make her body less aware of the lacking oxygen levels.   Doctors are not pushing a feeding tube and we have discontinued IV fluids because they don't believe it is necessary now.  The optimistic outlook last week was 7-14 days and she has fought for each of the last 5 days.  We pray for a peaceful passing but always remain hopeful for one last miracle.

Thank you for your prayers and support.
Aaron & Sharon